#11 - A Radical Statement
There’s a gentle snowfall outside right now as I’m typing this. The world feels so serene, so quiet, so calm. Nothing can shake this up... I see more beauty in a one-night stand than in a long-term relationship full of trouble. *** You still with me? Okay. 😊 Breathe for a few moments... we’ll get through this. *** Now, please allow me to explain my point here: Why do relationships fail or sour over time? Because we have too many expectations. We expect our partner to be our lover, friend, and confidant all at once. We expect them to be true and faithful to us, all the time. We expect them to act or behave in certain ways in order for us to be happy. We expect them to fill whatever gaps we perceive in ourselves. We expect them to make us happy. Now, I’m not saying we should all go out and sleep with random strangers! Just take a moment to ponder the essence of such an experience: 1) There are no expectations. You’re not looking for a lifelong commitment, and there are no strings attach